laugh
Waiting on a Wish?
Or maybe this is it.
self-awareness
gay anthem
Navigating the Hostile Territory of Aging and Attraction
What happens when you realize you’ve participated in your own erasure?
Spiritual
My Aria of Grief
The unique agony of a “mature” breakup
disability
Why I Hate “Fake It Till You Make It”—and Why We Don’t Have a Good Alternative
disability
Why I Hate “Fake It Till You Make It”—and Why We Don’t Have a Good Alternative
Because sometimes pretending is the only thing paying the bills.
laugh
What Am I waiting for?
Delayed due to inner maintenance.
laugh
Live, Laugh, Lie
Why Happiness Isn’t a Choice — And the Truth About High-Functioning Happiness
friendship
Here’s Everything Wrong With Me
Why I felt compelled to disclose my damage before anyone got close.
writer
Loving While Lost
On the men I couldn’t hold, and the guy I was when I tried.
hope
Loneliness Needs Better Branding
The problem with loneliness is the marketing.
hope
Easier to Love When Edited
What if the version of me people accepted was never the whole me?
mindfulness
Performative Empathy, Pop Psychology, and the Stuff That Starts to Feel Off
If I hear “holding space” one more time, I might wonder if we’re actually doing it… or just saying it.