routine
More Machine Than Man
Still waiting. Just better at it.
self-care
Madison
Am I a Coward for Never Leaving My Hometown?
The question I’ve been asking myself for years — and the answer that surprised me
Sondheim
When the Music Turned Sour
Surviving the 30-Year Battle Between My Talent and My Depression
gay anthem
Navigating the Hostile Territory of Aging and Attraction
What happens when you realize you’ve participated in your own erasure?
hope
I Know Better Now, But I Still Feel Like a Failure
When insight doesn’t quiet the old voice
disability
The Undiscovered Country of Getting Better
After 35 years of suffocating depression, I finally used the last of my air to speak up.
Spiritual
My Aria of Grief
The unique agony of a “mature” breakup
disability
Why I Hate “Fake It Till You Make It”—and Why We Don’t Have a Good Alternative
disability
Why I Hate “Fake It Till You Make It”—and Why We Don’t Have a Good Alternative
Because sometimes pretending is the only thing paying the bills.
laugh
What Am I waiting for?
Delayed due to inner maintenance.
laugh
Live, Laugh, Lie
Why Happiness Isn’t a Choice — And the Truth About High-Functioning Happiness
writer
Loving While Lost
On the men I couldn’t hold, and the guy I was when I tried.